Monday, March 23, 2009

Marriage, Music, and Misc Mania


JC and Angie's Wedding



Brother and sister enjoying the wedding.

Sneaking into mom's lipstick with an attitude and sneaking into mom's boots.


Trevor and Aaron adore Timothy, but sometimes he doesn't put up with the flowering affection too well.



Spencer on the bass playing Bizet and Dvorak.



Mikelle's concert.


Dancing to animusic.

Rickey with Grandpa Shumway's letterman sweater, which he wore proudly to school.

Sunday, March 22, 2009

Pneumonia and RSV

We have been mindful of Kathy's sister-in-law, Lisa Kay who had a fatal car accident 14 years ago today. Those were difficult days. We often think of Lisa and remember her darling personality. She had 4 young sons at the time and Greg and his 2nd wife DeAnn have done an amazing job raising them. The oldest is now serving a mission in Argentina. We have not forgot Lisa Kay and wanted to mention her today. She donated what organs she could and I have a new appreciation for that gift after living in the "heart world."

PNEUMONIA and RSV!!! Those are two of my favorite words. . . especially when I have one and my sweet babe has the other. What a coughing combo my family has been as of late. We honestly love doctors and appreciate the great gifts they give us. I have lots of photos of Timothy's RSV because I was there to snap them, but I don't have any coughing shots of myself, which is what I've been doing A LOT of lately.

Spencer enjoyed his experience with the wisdom teeth removal (ha ha!) and got after the nurse for not giving him enough pain medicine when "we're paying all of this money" etc. They didn't have too much sympathy for him. I think he thought there would be NO pain.

Jeff had his hand surgery where they re-attached his left thumb ligament and is very sympathetic for those who are disabled. It has really slowed him down to have his left hand completely immobile.






Timothy's hospital stay at UVRMC with dehydration and RSV. Dr. Adams on the right.



Timothy is a spunky little monkey!!!



Jeff coaxing Timothy to eat with new cast.


Memories of Timothy's oxygen taped PJs. He had about a week without it before he was back on and he must be having sweet dreams on the right photo.

Sweet Sarah reading to Timothy during a breathing treatment pre-hospital.


Timothy is always happy about a visit from Grandma Shields.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Broken Hearts

My heart it aching for so many people today. I have watched my sweet sister-in-law Liz as she so gracefully cared for her aging mother who just recently died from complications of a brain tumour. She has been such a dedicated daughter and always took her responsibility so serious and it has not been an easy one--but one that she convinced us all she was proud to take on. Her heart will certainly be aching for weeks, months, and years to come. Mine still aches for my own father, lost to cancer 9 1/2 years ago. It also aches for Sweet Grandma Merrill who misses her loving companion so much right now. What an amazing job she did of caring for Grandpa Merrill all those years.



I've also been aching for sweet "Gracie Girl" and her parents which many of you already know of her story. Find full details on http://www.thegledhillfamily.blogspot.com/ for those with time and a strong heart, but in a nutshell, Gracie was born with Timothy's same condition, HLHS, and has had so many complications and troubles. She finally lost her fight for life on March 2nd, but what a long valiant fight she fought. My heart truly goes out to her parents and siblings, as even my kids were all praying and constantly asking if Gracie was still okay. Timothy one day woke up and wouldn't pray for her heart, but simply said, "Gracie doesn't need a heart, she went home." That was just a few days before she actually died, but I'm sure her Spirit was already hovering between the hospital and home.

I also met a sweet mother up at Primary's who son's water on the brain has had complications where he bled during the brain surgery and has brain damage. She's the primary breadwinner since her husband has a disability and she's commuting back and forth from Logan t Primary's!! My heart certainly aches for her.

What a precious gift each day is. I am more determined to enjoy every single day and try to live life without regrets.



Here's a photo and video of Timothy's favorite Christmas gift--his animals that he often prays for.